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| Surprise Baby Shower - Tila (Lisa) Clark |
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Well, what a day I had!!
It was the most amazing surprise!! |
| HOW IT ALL STARTED: |
It
all started in the morning, for me that is…
...it started for everyone else long before that…
...with a secret website, secret emails and telephone
calls to the “committee” - - - Vibodha, Vistara and
Deb…
...they arranged secret car arrivals at specific times
on the day...
...secret car parking, balloons, food…..
YOU ARE ALL SO SNEAKY….
I LOVE IT!! |
Alex
and his girlfriend Lesley are traveling around the world and are
currently stopping in Western Australia and are staying with us
at the moment before they head up North.
[Alex was the Best Man at our wedding
and is one of Vibdodha [EJ’s] closest friends from University
in Hull, UK].
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| BAKING MY OWN CAKE - TOTALLY UNAWARE: |
It
was agreed the night before [Saturday]
that I should bake my own cake, so Lesley…who happens to be
an expert in making cakes, suggested I learn to bake a cake as it
is said to be a great way to pass the time in the first part of
labour!!
So it sounded like fun…what I didn’t know is that I was baking
my own cake for my surprise Baby Shower…
I told you they were good!! |
| THE PLOT TO REMOVE ME FROM THE SECRET LOCATION: |
So cake underway and in the oven, Vibodha
suggested we go for a walk on the beach, it was a beautiful day and South
Beach was filled with people and atmosphere.
I fell asleep on the blanket while he read…and little did I know
that while that was happening around 30 people were gathering at 39 Davilak
Avenue and setting up the surprise.
On
the way home I stopped in with my neighbour, who was in on it too, not
a word from her…
...and Vibodha is talking about what we will do for the rest of the afternoon,
paint the cot, have lunch…I am agreeing in innocence...
He took this photo just before we walked into the house...
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| THEN….THE BIG MOMENT: |
Into
the house I go, Vibodha opens up the living room door for me to walk in
first and I see and hear SURPRISE!!! As all my dear friends are gathered
in the house, balloons, smiles, food and flowers are everywhere….I
think I might go into labour then and there. I just cannot believe it. |
 Tears
just came and I can’t stop them, it was so hard to take in that
all these beautiful beings were here to celebrate our new family, to celebrate
for me and the new baby to be. |
I
was so touched and am literally speechless [which doesn’t happen
to me too often].
I think I cried for about 5 minutes, hiding my face, hyperventilating…
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| THE LOVE IN THE ROOM: |
Then
I start to individually see the people in the room and that sends me off
even more. Amanda steps out first to hug me and then I connect with everyone
in the room as I hug and cry and smile and laugh and am in disbelief. IT
IS SO AWESOME!!!! |
Deb
made me a much needed cup of recovery tea, lots of other people are crying
because I am so emotional…. and I am led to the food table where
I see the cake I made with Lesley and Alex...
... beautifully decorated and iced!! |
The
table was piled with LOADS of the most delicious looking treats!!
Everything has been set up, games are arranged by Vistara, the room is
filled with flowers and there is a huge pile of presents on the floor…the
kind that Santa used to leave for me!! |
| FUN AND LAUGHTER: |
We
have a lot of fun, starting with pin the dummy on the baby. I go first
and the baby ends up with his dummy on his “third eye”.
[I am sure I will be better in real life!].
It is hysterical watching everyone else…only Amanda manages it
perfectly!!
Gosia, who is an amazing artist drew the picture and it will be the first
thing set up in the birthing room as my inspiration [thanks Gosia]. |
The
next game is the “Peg Game”. How many pegs can you get off
the line using one hand? Danielle is the winner with 22 pegs!!
With Danica running a close second…both have been invited around
everyday to assist with nappy washing!!! [I am awaiting an answer from
you both!!]
The final game is pass the parcel, we certainly got into the spirit of
being children again and had a lot of fun!!! |
| PRESSIES, PRESSIES, PRESSIES… |
I
open up stacks of presents, they are all so beautiful!!!
THANKS TO YOU ALL FOR YOUR GENEROSITY AND CUTE SELECTIONS…
HE WILL BE A VERY TRENDY BABY THANKS TO YOU!!
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| I JUST HAD THE BEST AFTERNOON: |
I
want to thank Vibodha for his lead in this; he truly is the most wonderful
husband and will make the most divine father.
Thanks Vibodha for coming into my life, you make every day so special
for me and I love you VERY much. |
Thanks
to my dear friend Vistara, who, in the midst of many of her own things going
on in her life, managed to pull off this surprise so beautifully, to fill
the house with gorgeous flowers, and laughter with her games and with people…thanks
Vistara for taking the time to be a great friend. |
And a special thanks to Deb, my dear friend.
Who took on the catering and made so much of it with her own hands, whilst
bringing up two children and her husband being currently in New Zealand,
an amazing act of love. Thanks Deb, for being you and my dear friend,
you are so special to me.
And
the last minute conspirators…Alex and Lesley, who not only organised
the cake, but who were there to tidy up afterwards & to help me with
the presents. How amazing that you could both be there for this amazing
party! Thanks!!
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And thanks to all of my dear
dear friends who came to be with me on this special day, and for those
of you who I know where there in spirit!
YOU MADE MY DAY…THIS WILL BE A DAY I WILL NEVER
EVER FORGET.
I woke up in the middle of that night in tears of overwhelm
for the joy & gratitude for my life.
Gratitude for the little one about to arrive and of the
joy he will bring, gratitude for you my amazing friends, my family and
for my life.
Thanks for being you and for being a part of my life.
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| WHO WAS THERE: |
Let me tell you who was there…
Vistara, Deb, Danielle & her au-pair, Ragini, Alice & Macquire,
Amanda, Kathy & Leif, Kerry, Bronwyn, Sam, Venetia and Bill, Jill,
Gosia, Aya, Johanna, Danica, Karen, Helen & Christopher, Britt, Bavali,
Fiona & Lisa, Lesley and Alex. |
| WHO WAS THERE IN SPIRIT: |
Sono
and Mandana sent a beautiful gift and their apologies, and Gemma, Zalia,
George, Natalie, Catherine K and Catherine B, apologised that they could
not be there.
Sarah and Jo were in Bali and Sue is on a 6-week adventure trip around
the globe. Grace is in Malaysia, Agiana is in Chile and Sandy is in Alaska.
Manal in in New Zealand.
Melissa and Linda were at Melissa’s “Kitchen Tea” on
the same day…as Melissa gets married very soon. The others of you
who were there in spirit were, Louisa, Cass, Jill G, Natasha, Jamie, Robyn,
Gila, Pameo, Lara, C-Jae & Di.
My Mum and Dad sent a card for the shower and called me in the swing
of the party to send me their love. The whole thing has been so well orchestrated!!
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